well I wrote something about this on my FB page……. but I really could not go into it fully.. so I thought I would here…….. You see many people have asked me on several occasions. How is it you are sooooo positive! one can not always be this positive! You have to have negaive to balance the positive. I too believe you have to have both. BUT for me, I can not hold on to that emotion. It will only bring me down and then it is impossible to heal anything.. SO I embrace it, look at it, forgive myself, try to see why this situation was put in my path and what I may need to learn from it! I truly believe that it is my positive energy that has helped me overcome many obstacles that have crossed in my path…. i just don’t talk about them… oh believe me I vent……….. but i refuse to hold on to them… and let them fester…..my mother would say Despues de la tormenta viene la calma…. after the storm, comes the calm…… I have a mat at the entrance to my house and it goes like this…..life is’nt about waiting for the storm to pass, its about learning to dance in the rain… yay……change is good too. it keeps us on our toes and lets us kn ow that we are alive… and if we were not well this change will show us that it is time to live!!! without fear…. nothing is really guaranteed to us… not a lover, not a career, not a job, not even our life….. only death…..and knowing this makes me appreciate it even more… because it can be taken from us like THAT! poof!!!! so dance as if no one is watching, sing as if no one is listening, and love as if your heart has never been broken….. today is my brother david’s birthday